ok my pc cant handle anything, so by the look of it, i'm out... shame, i wanted to do that one...
my pc can just about handle the scene up there now for some reason, it used to be able to a few hours ago...
i'll give more details on how i acheived this though cause with that, technique, you can go from rigging cheecks to making footsteps, pretty much anything you want really, even make a quy interacting with a pillow, without mesh collisions, and it's so simple to use...